Small Acts of Compassion

They lay on mattresses, on top of the sharply angled cement walls that run from the street and end tucked up under the overpass of the southbound city thoroughfare. They were wrapped in blankets and layers of clothing in an attempt to ward off wind chills that registered in the teens. My heart ached and I said a silent prayer as we sped past in our toasty car.

We parked in the garage and, although we had winter coats, scarves, hats, and gloves on, the northern wind bit through our clothing. We walked briskly and then ran across the street in order to get all six of us across before the light changed. A man sat bundled at the base of the traffic signal, trying to stay warm.

I was focused on keeping my two stragglers (Aubry and Greyson) with us. In my peripheral I saw Holden reaching over to the bundled-up man. And then I heard the change in the quiet cold evening. Inside I felt pride. I said nothing as he caught up with me, but took his hand and squeezed it hard.

“It’s so cold, mom. Will he be okay?” he said.

“I don’t know, honey. I hope so.”

We joined the rest of the swim team members and their families in the Italian restaurant. It was our annual dinner before their state sectionals. We would be full of pasta, thank you’s, and hope for our kids.

What did that man on the corner have? Only the hope that he would make it through the night. I forgot about him as the evening moved on.

The pasta was filling and we requested to-go containers. We bundled up for our trek back to our car. As I went to cross the intersection, Aubry and Greyson were not with me. They had stopped in front of a different man who had taken over the same spot of the homeless man who had been there earlier. I wondered if the money Holden had given had in some small way helped him—towards a meal or something warm to drink. I witnessed my daughter handing over the remains of her dinner. Greyson stood behind her, watching and then came running up to me. Without speaking I handed him my container and he ran back to the homeless man. I had walked a little closer and heard the man’s quiet thank you. I saw his gratitude as he looked at me. The man quickly opened the containers and began eating. He was very hungry.

I held Aubry and Greyson’s hands as we walked off. We all talked of homelessness and I was touched by my kids’ compassion—their concern for the man’s well-being. In a small way they came forth and helped someone who was in need, if only for one night. I know they will again. We are raising compassionate kids. Pass it on.


Filed under Adoptive Mom's Perspective, The International Mom

4 responses to “Small Acts of Compassion

  1. Pingback: Hunkering Down On An Icy Day | The International Mom's Blog

  2. Judy, this truly touched me. You are a compassionate soul; that much is clear from your writing. It appears that your example and lessons are being taken to heart. This world would be a better place by far if we could all pass that on. I fear that too many young people these days have an inward focus. Hope for the future will come from those who have and practice compassion. May we all do our part.

  3. Sad and beautifully written. Sending loving, compassionate, well-loved children out into the world is the highest calling and our best hope.

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